Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Luck is very often a self-realization..

Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks
they deserve?

According to a note by a psychologist.....

People have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts and behaviors are responsible for much of their good and bad fortune. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do
not. Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people and this
anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result,
they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for
something else.

They go to parties intent on finding their perfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends.

They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of Job advertisements and miss other types of jobs.

Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for.

They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.

Four tips for becoming lucky:

Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right

Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine

Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well

Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or
telephone.

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